Sister struggles to bring her Sixties Scoop brother's ashes home from U.S.

Susan Chief is experiencing loss all over again after her brother's death.

He was a part of the Sixties Scoop, and following his death in the U.S. earlier this year, she wanted to bring his remains home to Manitobabut ended up in a dispute with hisadoptive family.

The Sixties Scoop is the name for a series of policiesby provincial child welfare authorities between the 1950s and the 1990swhich saw thousands of Indigenous children taken from theirfamilies and communities andplaced with non-Indigenous foster or adoptive parents, losing their cultural identities as a result.

The Chief family lived in Birch River, a community close to Swan River,Man.,about 485 kilometres northwest of Winnipeg. There werenine siblings taken from thefamily.Daniel Ross and one of his brothers were sent to a family in Minnesota.

Chief saidshe reconnected with Danny, 59, online,only a couple months before he died in Florida at the end of March after a heart attack.

Chief, 68,now lives in Winnipeg and said he told her he wanted to be buried in Duck Bay, Man., with his birth parents.

"He said, 'You know, if something ever happens to me, if I ever die,' he said, 'All I want is to go to Duck Bay to be buried beside mom,'" she said.

Chief saidRoss expressed a desire to comehome for a visit, maybe to stay, just weeks before he died.

Chieffound out from a Facebook message that he had died.

She said she hasbeen trying for months to work with her brother's adoptive family to settle his estate. Chief said his adoptive sister organized everything, including making the decision to have him cremated and sent back to Minnesota.

His adoptive sister declined to comment.

Chief said his adoptive sister agreed to plan to bring his ashes to Manitoba, but then plans kept changing.

"All of a sudden I got a call She said, 'Susan, I'm sorry to tell you, but we're not going to be going to Winnipeg or Duck Bay, Danny is going to be buried here.'"

Chief said the adoptive sister told herit was because his other birth brother, who also lives in the United States, did not want Danny to be buried in Manitoba.

After months of back and forth, they finally came to an agreement to split the ashes between two locations.

Chief was reluctant to agree.

"We talked about the Sixties Scoop and what happened, and she never, ever heard about it, she doesn't know what it is. [She said] 'All I know is these two boys were brought to our home.'"

Chief said Danny told her he was not happy with his adopted family and left at age 17.

Write it down

Because Danny didn't have a will, the rights to his estate and to decide what happens to his remains is legally held by his adoptive family.Since it was only in a phone call where he expressed his wishes, verbal consentcannot be honoured legally.

Colleen Cardinal isco-founder of the Sixties Scoop Network, an organization that supports Sixties Scoop survivors and raises awareness about the issue. She saidwithout awill, blood relatives have little say in arrangements after their siblings' deaths.

"It's not the first time we've heard of this issue," saidCardinal.

"We're trying to advocate that adoptees geta written will and health directives for what to do with their body and who would get custody for their remains. Unless [they] wrote something down, the legal family has the legal right to do what they want."

She saideven a note on a piece of paper that's not an official willis good enough, as long as it's notarized.

"It's their word against the adoptive family," she said.

"It's unfortunate.Many adoptees want to be buried in their communities or back where they came from and they get buried in church cemeteries and that's not what they want to do."

Chief is a member of the Manitoba Mtis Federation (MMF), andthe organization saidanexperience like hersonly re-traumatizes people.

Frances Chartrand, the MMF's minister of health, said in an emailed statement to CBC News that the Sixties Scoop is a clearexample of intergenerational trauma.

"Even in death, we still have to fight to bring our children home and there is a lot of anger and hurt in the affected families. It doesn't go away," the statement said.

Chief is going to Minnesota this monthto bring her brother home.

"I try and think positive," she said. "At least we'll have some of him."

Sister struggles to bring her Sixties Scoop brother's ashes home from U.S.

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Susan Chief is experiencing loss all over again after her brother's death. He was a part of the Sixties Scoop, and following his death in the U.S. earlier this year, she wanted to bring his remains home to Manitoba but ended up in a dispute with his adoptive family.