Markham boutique hotel for dementia patients built to give their caregivers a break

When her close friend's husband was diagnosed with early-onset Alzheimer's at the age of 65, Liliane Vidicek saw just how taxing caring for him could be. His decline was rapid and within 14 months he needed care around the clock.

So Vidicekbecame one of his caregivers to help give her friend a break.

"It's very, very important that's the biggest issue. They can't get away or even if they have somebody come in, they're still always there," she said.

So, she thinks it's great that a new hotel opening in Markham, Ont.,Fridaywill provide premium short-term care for people living with memory loss or dementia, so their caregivers can have some respite.

Experts say the demandfor such as service isexpected to grow as more than half a million Canadians have dementia.That number is expected to double within 15 years as Canada's population ages,putting pressure on hundreds of thousands ofloved ones who will have tostepinto the role of caregiver.

"So if they could drop them off and kind of separate themselves from the person knowing that their loved one is well taken care of it gives them great peace of mind," Vidiceksaid.

The hotel is the latest project by Memory & Company, which opened an adult daycare centre in Markham four years ago for clients who have dementia and are not eligible, or cannot get into, a long-term care facility.

"When you're a caregiver for somebody living with memory loss it's a 'round-the-clock responsibility," said Ashley Kwong, Memory & Company's creator and director of operations.

"A lot of families really struggle with working full-time and then caring for somebody when they get home at night. It's a 24-hour-a-day, seven-days-a-week responsibility."

The term dementia describes symptoms affecting brain function caused by neurodegenerative diseases, such as Alzheimer's, although injuries or other types of vascular disease can lead to a decline in cognitive abilities, such as memory, awareness of person, place, and time.

As it progresses, dementia can mean a person needs help with daily activities, such as eating, bathing, dressing and going to the toilet.

But Kwong says care doesn't necessarily have to be in an institutional setting.

"We've done it as upscale boutique hotel feel," said Kwong, who adds it's more like all-inclusive resort with 24- hour nursing activities and even fine dining prepared by an executive chef in an open concept gourmet kitchen.

"We really want to make sure that when people come here they feel like they're coming to a resort."

Kwong says the hotel was built with dementia design principles in mind including circular hallways, private rooms with ensuite washrooms and motion sensors throughout for a secure and safe environment.

There's a physical fitness studio, outdoor lounges and even a movie theatre along with cognitive fitness programs including music and art therapy that have been developed by York Universityand the University of Toronto, Baycrest and the Art Gallery of Ontario.

"You want them to feel like they're coming to a place where they will be pampered, so that caregivers will have guilt free respite knowing that their loved one's coming here and being really well taken care of and having a great time,'' said Kwong.

"So that they can go and have that time to themselves without having to worry and actually go and enjoy their free time themselves."

Nalini Sen, the director of research withthe Alzheimer Society of Canada, sayssuch a hotel can make a big difference in the lives of those with dementia and improve their care.

"Providing care for someone with Alzheimer's disease and dementia takes a tremendous toll on caregivers both physically and emotionally," said Sen.

"And yet many caregivers don't often recognize the warning signs or deny the effects because they tend to push their own needs to the side," she added.

"This is an essential service that really should be provided to caregivers. You know taking a break and having a chance to do something for yourself to get away from the demands that have been placed on you."

Senhopesthe next federal government commits to funding a national dementia strategy andto researching dementia prevention, advance therapies and potential cures.

Sen would also like to see support for such respite centres like Memory & Company's hotel, which is a private, for-profit business.

Kwong points out that at $299 a night, the hotel is a third of the price of home care.

"Families are spending $35 an hour for home care, where we're working out to about $12.50 an hour and then you get everything including meals," said Kwong. "So everything is included ...We have 24 hour nursing here, as well and a minimum five-to-one staffing ratio."

Liliane Vidicek says the hotel won't be the right fit for all caregivers and their loved ones.

"Not everybody can afford it, but for those who can this is kind of like they're doing something special for their loved one," she said. "So it's a little bit of an indulgence."

Vidicek started a website to share resources with those who may be new to caring for someone with dementia.

"Not all levels of people with Alzheimer's are appropriate for that kind of facility, but many will be, especially at the beginning of dementia and Alzheimer's when caregivers need the most help," she said.