I'm learning to live with my climate change anxiety by making friends with Mother Nature

This is a First Person column by Becca Griffin,an artist and performer living in Prince Edward Island. For more information about CBC's First Person stories, please seethe FAQ.

After one of my first swims of the season, on a new-to-me beach close to the house my partner and I started renting back in February, I stood wrapped in a towel at the archway of trees leading me back on the path through the field and home again.

On impulse, child-like wonder stopped me in my tracks.

With one foot on the rickety little steps that would lift me from sand to clay, I looked up and noticed the leaves of a cluster of birch trees rustling in the breeze. Then I heard them my intuition, my imagination.

They sang, "These trees are applauding you, Becca." And suddenly, all of those stirring leaves became Mother Nature's tiny green hands, growing louder with each gust, giving me a standing ovation for taking the plunge fairly early on in the season.

I bowed and curtsied my towel, soaking in the attention as if I'd just performed the most beautiful aria. After this game of pretend with the trees, I continued on home feeling as though I were a character in the cosmos,Rebecca of Bunburyif you will, believing this to bemy own personal L.M. Montgomery chapter.

But my relationship with Mother Nature isn't always so pure or simple.

I fear the unknown climate change brings

Lately, I find myself increasinglygrappling withthe weight of climate change. I feel the fear of the unknown, I experience the dread of what's to come for myself, for my family, for my community.

Will we have a roof over our heads? Will we be forced from our home by a hurricane or some other extreme weather event? Where would we even go if such a disaster occurred?

These are only a few examples of the way my thoughts unfold, one anxious question after another.

But I find I am often able to quiet the worry by just sitting outside, slowly breathing, kneading those thoughts out of my mind.

Why not cry with her?

It's important for me to understand that what really scares me is Mother Nature's fury, her might. And by acknowledging that, I'm also acknowledging that it's out of my control. This allows me to move through how I'm feeling in tandem with her.

When the lights go out, the wind is howling why not make mournful music with her? When she's pouring down buckets and I'm stuck waiting it out why not cry with her?

Much like Anne Shirley, I have a knack for being present withMother Natureon a breezy, sunshiny day. I believe it is my challenge to bring that presence into her scarier moments, too.

The more I can ebband flowthrough whatever system she's experiencing, the more I get to know her and can ultimately relate to her. The more I want to take care of her, as I would myself.

Playing alongside Mother Nature is the easy part of this blooming friendship speaking to the birds like a fairytale gnome, building snow sculptures in the park on a quiet day in January, pretending I'm a mermaid as I jump gleefully over her surf.

Being vulnerable with her is the next great step, especially in the face of a changing climate and more extreme weather events. I believe the work ahead of me is to acknowledge the fear, allow myself to feel it, and find my way toward trusting Mother Nature. I believe that will allow me to heal fasterand she will too.