Men 'getting the message' in the wake of #MeToo, says local counselling service

A counselling resource in Ottawa thatprovides men with mental health services says it'sseeing an increase in clients signing up fortheir programs in light of the #MeToo movement.

Men & Healing is a mental health clinic in Ottawa that counsels men on a variety of issues including abuse, trauma recovery and anger management.

"Men are getting the message on a variety of accounts that it's time to take account for their behaviour, to be responsible and do something about it," said Rick Goodwin, the clinic's executive director.

Goodwin told CBC News that since the #MeToo movement exploded last year, interest has spiked for the clinic's emotional intelligence and integrity program.

The 10-week group session program,Goodwin said, givesmen the skills to take responsibility for their behaviour but more importantly,it explores how men can foster deeper connections with peopleand open themselves up to emotional intimacy.

It's become so popular over the last year, Goodwinsaid, that they've had to launch a second version of the program. About 15 people are currently enrolled in the group sessions, with twice as many taking one-on-one counselling, he said.

The clinic is also considering launching similar programs exclusively for francophones and gay men, he added.

Deep shame

The#MeToo movement might be "nudging men to attend to their issues more," he said, and making them feel more accountable for their actions.

Goodwin said that men who've taken part in the program havesharedstories aboutbeing called out in the workplace for their behaviour.

He said fundamentally what the #MeToo movement says to men is that they have to take account of grandiose behaviour and stopbeing "me-centred."

Somemen need support tonavigate the deep shame they may feel when reflecting back on their behaviour, Goodwin added.

'You can make better choices'

Theprogram boosts men's confidence, makes them more self-awareand teaches themhow to ask for help, said Robert Kehl, a peer helper with the clinic.

"We are learning that if you look after things like trauma or anxiety, you can make better choices," saidKehl, who's taken the program himself four times.

While mental health services can help change men'sbehaviour both in and out of the workplaces, Kehl says there's also a lack of services and sometimes men end up waitingyears to access programs like the ones atMen & Healing.

"If you're having a crisis, and you say 'Please help me,' and someone says 'Come back in two or three years,' well, that's not good enough," saidKehl.

Kehl sad there needs to be more funding for men's mental health services and that without it, the cultural change the #MeToo movement is pushing for will be difficult to realize.