How COVID-19 made me grab life by the handlebars

Most people learn to ride a bike around age five, but I learned at 33. I'm proud because I've been afraid of learning ever since I was little.

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I didn't learn when my friends did because my folks got divorced and I was such a handful for my parents, learning to ride a bike just fell through the cracks.

I also broke my arm when I was eightand it never healed properly. That gave me an excuse to never face this fear and get out of all feats of athleticism. I played that card more than once.

In some ways, my fear was logical a lot of people get hit by cars and get seriously injured, children scrape their knees, people chip their teeth. But for me, the fear was more vague and amorphous.

Riding a bike was just this thing I had convinced myself I could never do and never attempt because it was just impossible.

My family is French from France and so much of what they do is on va en velo to go to the bakery, butcher shop or beach. And Icouldn't do that.

Growing up, I had girlfriends who said, "Let's ride a bike to a picnic." I had to say, "I guess I'll walk or something?"

I also had boyfriends who would want to go for aride and I'd have to admit that I don't know how and if we wanted toIwould need training wheels, and I don't know that they make those for adults. So it's come up a few times over the years.

I got my current bike as a present for my 30th birthday. It was a sweet gift from an ex-boyfriend who said he thought Icould conquer this fear.

It sat for three years, and shortly after my 33rd which happened during COVID Iwas thinking a lot about what COVID means and how it shows you how precious and fragile life is. It felt like a great time to confront my fear.

So I told my big bro, who's been trying to teach me for years. He was really gung-ho, and we went out to get it done.

We went to a place with no cars and little traffic the grounds of my old high school. My brother admitted he didn't know what he was doing andhadn't watched any tutorials, but he said, "Sit on the bike, walk with your feet, then start to pedal."

He held the handlebars and the seat. Thenat one point he said,"You know, Alex, I'm not doing anything." I was like, "That's not true."

He said, "No, you got this and it only took 10 minutes."

I checked offthis thing that's been on my bucket list for 25 years, and that's a big deal.- Alexandra MacEchearn

That's the worst part of this storythat I was able to learn so quickly once I confronted that fear.

But I was really proud. I actually did this thing. Ichallenged myself and Idid it.

The interesting thing is that there were people around who were watching this grown woman learning to ride a bike for the first time and they were all smiling. Becauseit's rickety and awkward, but they could see I was having a good time.

I posted about it on social media afterward. A lot of people said congratulations and also shared their stories of learning to ride a bike at 45, or learning to drive later in life.

I would love to think it inspired someone else to try something they otherwise wouldn't have done.

It turns out, I like bike riding. It's still hard, and it still scares me and Ihave some anxiety going out that I'll fall or dent a car or run into an old lady or do something horrible.

But Ihave to admit, riding up and down the parkway in the evening is an absolute delight. I start to pick up speed and have some self-confidence and it's exciting.

Now, for the first time I can bike to get an ice cream or a beer. There's a lot to look forward to.

Coronavirus is terrible, quarantine is nofun, but it can offer some different perspectives. There are ways to turn those negatives into positives, and challenging our underlying fears is one of them.

I checked offthis thing that's been on my bucket list for 25 years, and that's a big deal.

What else can I tackle?

AlexandraMacEachern is chief of staff to the CEO of the Canadian Digital Service, a division of Treasury Board,in Ottawa. Up next, she's planning to learn to drive.