Separated by India flight ban, Ottawa family desperate to reunite

Ravideep Kaur's day isn't complete untilshe's read a bedtime story to her seven-year-old son.

What's odd about her situation is that she does this at 9 a.m., before leavingfor her job as an assistant at a Kanata dental clinic. Kaur's husband Atul Nagar and their son Avikamare stuck in India, unable to get back home because of a flight ban.

On April 22,the federal government announced a ban on flights from India and Pakistan due to a spike in cases in both countries.

We are Canadians stuck outside. Canada is our home. We didn't travel for leisure.- Atul Nagar

India is particularly hard-hit with 379,257 new cases recorded on Thursday, the highest single-day spike anywhere in the world.

Kaur, Nagar and their son moved to Canada in September 2017 and became permanent residents. Kaur is now alone at their family home in Riverside South.

"I feel devastated, I feel depressed and I feel emotionally weak. I don't know when I'll get to see them again," she said.

Kaur said reading stories to her son virtually gives her some relief, but the physical distance between them is taking a toll on her.

"I just want to hug him."

Quick trip becomes 'long haul'

In January, Nagar had to leave for Chandigarh, India, to settle a family financial matter. Unlike Kaur, Nagar had the option to work remotely. The couple decided their son would travel with him to India, whereAvikamhas been attendingvirtual school while his dad juggles work and parenting alone.

"What was supposed to be a brief trip has turned into a very long haul," said Nagar.

The two were scheduled to return in April, but Nagar tested positive for COVID-19. By the time he recovered and made plans to travel in early May, the Canadian government announcedthe travel ban.

"I've been exploring ways to get back to Canada via a third country, maybe in Europe or the Middle East or the United States. But I will need a negative COVID report, so any airport I fly by will need to have that facility," he said.

Nagar has been scrolling through forums, looking to find others in a similar situation.

"There are no concrete answers," he said.

Ottawa resident separated from husband, son by India travel ban

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Ravideep Kaur lives in Ottawa but her husband and son are in India, with a travel ban now separating the family. She says reading a bedtime story to her seven-year-old son over the phone has been a source of comfort for them both.

Travel ban temporary but necessary: IRCC

Nagarsaid he's reachingthe end of his rope as hestruggles to raise a child alone while alsoworkingremotely, all while recovering from post-COVID-19 fatigue.

"It has been a challenge. With the time difference, our work hours are odd. I have to manage that and help him with his homework. He also misses his mom. He wants to talk to her every chance he gets."

Nagar saidhe expects the Canadian government to look out for permanent residents. "We are Canadians stuck outside. Canada is our home. We didn't travel for leisure."

In an email, Immigration, Refugees and Citizenship Canada spokesperson Nancy Carontold CBC:"These rules are temporary and are necessary to protect the health and safety of Canadians. To help prevent the spread of COVID-19 and the variants of the virus, the Government of Canada continues to actively monitor the situation and will not hesitate to take further measures as required."

WhileNagar has his hands full with a seven-year-old in Chandigarh, Kaur struggles with isolation in Ottawa.

With a stay-at-home directive in Ontario, she can't even go out to meet her friends.

"I used to go to parks with my family, we used to go biking together. I miss all of that. I miss coming from home to have dinner with them, talking about our day [at]the dinner table. Now I ride my bike alone."