Family dinner is a mental-health winner, psychologist says

Parents can find it notoriously difficult to get their teenage children to communicate with them.

Butwith the many stresses that Canadian teensface, communication at this time of life is more important than ever, a Vancouver psychologist says.

Dr. Patrick Myerssays one simple way to get conversation started is to sit down together for dinner and the earlier you start making this a habit, the better.

February, in particular, can be a stressful time for students facing midterms and heavy course loads.

It also happens to be Psychology Month in British Columbia andDr. PatrickMyersis using the opportunity to highlight the anxiety that young people face this time of year.

"They've got social pressures, peer pressures, they need to accomplish something and make lifelong decisions," saidMyers.

"It's a pretty stressful time in general."

Bon apptit, bonne conversation

Myersis a registered therapist and often counselsfamilies on how to communicate better, with the aim of improving mental health.

His No. 1 recommendation is to get into the habit ofhaving family dinners.

"Really try to make a habit of that, so that we do get to connect with our teenagers and the adults and everyone around," said Myers.

A family dinner can go a long way toward addressing the questions Myers said all parents typically ask him.

He said many parents express concerns that their adolescent child doesn't communicate as much as they did when they were younger.

That's why it's so important to form the family dinner habit early in a child's life, he said.

But Myerssaid there's an onus on parents to speak up on behalf their children, as well.

Myersadded that one of the largest barriers for a teenager and all Canadians, for that matter when seeking help is the stigma surrounding mental health treatment.

So it's important that parents, if they feelunderequipped, don't feel ashamed of reaching out to atherapist fortheir child, he said.

Teenagers and pot

Myers said as marijuana legalization inches closer in Canada,parents arefrequently asking him abouttheir child smoking cannabis.

He said there are potential mental health challenges that can be triggered by sustained use andparents should have a frank discussion about the pros and cons of marijuana.

He doesn't advocate an abstinence-first approach, but he also doesn't suggest a parent should easily condone smoking it.

He said there is a balance between the two approaches, but it can be difficult to find.

"I would keep on warning your teenager. I would have the tendency to also try to redirect a teenager's attention toward other things like their social group or sports," said Myers during CBC's B.C. Almanac.

"It's difficult to do, though."

As part of Psychology Month, theB.C. Psychological Association is hostinga series of talksacross the provincethat focus on various topics around depression, anxiety and mental health.

With files from B.C. Almanac