How Mark Sakamoto's grandparents taught him the true meaning of forgiveness

Forgivenessfollows Mark Sakamoto's maternal grandfather through capture and imprisonment as a prisoner of war in Japan during the Second World War all while his paternal grandmother and her Japanese-Canadian family are interned by their own government in Alberta. This book is acompassionate look at a family's history, and an unflinching portrait of Canada's own past.

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Hardships of the past

"My grandfather had a rough childhoodand, like most boys his age, he wanted to go serve his country andgo fight in Europe. He joined the militaryand the Canadian government sent him to Hong Kong. Three weeks after getting there, he came up against 50,000 Japanese soldiers. He was captured in Hong Kong on Christmas Day. His experience was horrific. He wasstarved and beaten,and he was sent to Japan.

"On the other side of the country, my grandma and grandpa Sakamoto were living rich productive lives. They were Canadian citizens,born and raised in Canada. At that time, theCanadian government bowed topolitical pressureand interned all Japanese-Canadians. My grandparents weretaken from their home, lost their propertyand started life in a chicken coop in Alberta."

The real meaning of forgiveness

"Through pure strength in my grandparents' hearts, they decided resolutely that they would not pass on the transgressions that were committed against them to their children. That's what was so interesting aboutForgiveness. I used to think of it as a transaction, 'I harmed you, you harmed me. Let's shake hands and let bygones be bygones.' That's not forgiveness at all. I had thought forgiveness was backward-looking. But forgiveness is all about tomorrow. My grandparents understood thatthe worst transgression they could commit was to pass on those transgressions to their children. Forgiveness was all about their children."

Passing on the lesson

"I dedicated Forgivenessto my daughters so they knew what they were made of. My grandparents' storiesof determination,struggle and love. At the end of the day, this is a very dark story. But like Leonard Cohen says, 'There's a crack in everything and that's how the light gets in.'I thinkmy grandparents' journey of forgiveness is a light to my family, and hopefully it will be to some readers."

Mark Sakamoto's comments have been edited and condensed.

All in a Day10:52How Mark Sakamoto learned forgiveness from his grandparents

Mark Sakamoto's grandparents went through much hardship during WWII. But instead of being bitter, they taught Sakamoto about forgiveness, and now it's documented in a new book.