Deaths in Lac La Ronge Indian Band have community searching for solutions

Karen Sanderson doesn't want the loss of three youthsor its impact on the community of the Lac La Ronge Indian Bandto be forgotten.

Sanderson, the executive director of PiwapanWomen's Centre in La Ronge, Sask., said the community is never going to get over the loss but they are seeking out solutions so that they never have to go through the pain again.

"I want that to be the foundation we keep going on, what we try and find long-term solutions for," she said.

Last week, three youths two in LaRongeand one in Stanley Mission took their own lives.The deathsoccurred over a four-day period and it sent the communitiesreeling.Community leaders say 20 other youths havebeen labelled as a high risk to take their own lives.

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Grasping at straws

Sandersonsaid adults in the community and community resources are "grasping at straws right now."

"I don't even know how our youth are feeling."

Addictions, gangs and a sense of belonging are just some of the issues youth struggle with in the community, Sanderson said.

"If we could bridge that gap with some services andsome community input, youth input, I think it could make us stronger," she said.

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Sanderson said the youth input would be especially helpful to a solution.

"They're the ones who have to try and cope with all of this loss right now," she said.

Sanderson is a mother and has had to bring the topic up with her 10-year-old daughter.

"We've tried to talk her about if things are a little rough, or something makes her feel bad, to talk to us, talk to her older sister," she said. "Somebody that she trusts, to always talk to them, no matter what."

Open communicationis key

Parents need to understand what their children are going through, Sanderson said.

"It's very difficult because it's coming from your heart. You're trying to put it in your brain and sometimes it doesn't come out very clear," she said of balancing communication without being overbearing.

"As a parent, just keep the lines of communication open with my kids," she added.

Right now, she said the only path she can take is to try to find the right resources available and close any gaps.

Mental health and addictions agencies have been working with families to provide the affected families with proper support, Sanderson said.

"I'm trying to put together the community resources, our referral agents, our frontline workers in the community together to see where our gaps in service are and try bring a common way of working together to address all the issues that keep coming up and that effect our youth and our children," she said.